Explaining Relationship Status: It’s Complicated
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some social networking sites offers users to choose "it's complicated" to express their current relationship status in their profile which are not so easy to describe. Sure this makes a lot of speculation to anyone who view the profile, especially the one who has relations to the profile owner. Imagine a girl find out that her spouse change the relationship status profile from "in relationship" to it's complicated". Sometimes it just like a virtual engagement ring (teenagers) heh!?!
This post is my contribution to the term "it's complicated"
case number one: almost mr. sunshine
you might have the thought that an ex male magazine sex editor wouldn't need much to acquire experience in finding woman for a night or two, at least i used to think that way. Later, I found otherwise. The hassle is always there. Last night I went to a party with a friend who meet so many he knew well. Get mingle, long-lost friend, and other social terms happened, he finally admit that better comes out with the "it's complicated" than to explain.
how do you explain that you re in "it's complicated"
common: 1. I love you but I won't marry you 2. I love you but you won't marry me 3. I don't love you, I just need you to be around till my soulmate reveal 4. I love you but you don't love me that much 5. I love you but you belongs to somebody else 6. I love you but your parents are in the way 7. I don't love you anymore… can we share the kids? 8. I never love you, however I don't mind being your spouse 9. I want you but I don't want your child
singles: 1. against "in relationship" 2 I am looking for divorced person 3. I have a boyfriend but he is married, and he won't let his wife find out about us
married couple: 1. honey, do you think our married could last forever considering we re swinger? all risk or hope that you will meet the perfect sex buddy during swinger session always haunted me. 2. married bisexual 3. I am married but I am available
divorced: definitely, it's complicated! (I won't tell)
other situations: 1. homosexual couple in a conservative jurisdiction 2. bisexual or confused sexual orientation
Most likely it's on when the profile owner confuse about their relationship status or they don't want to reveal their status, however it is mandatory on site like friendster. Other explanation and practical understanding.
practical: (one got hurt by seeing his/her mate change his relationship status)
more trying to explain
*enjoy*
August 3rd, 2007 at 3:58 pm
Very nice elaboration behind the ‘complication’.
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